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In This Issue: August 23, 2007

Michael Bungay StanierWarm wishes,

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Michael Bungay Stanier
Principal, Box of Crayons

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Five Big Questions

Do you have a particular album that takes you back to a certain time and place?

One of mine is Dire Strait’s, Making Movies – I was 16 when I first heard it, working on a goat farm with my friend Scow. 

It’s woven into my memories of that summer, the summer when I first ate avocado, first drank a great bottle of red wine and realized absolutely that I never ever wanted to cut another goat’s toenail as long as I live…

… and that’s a wrap!

And we’ve been making our own movies too. 

The sweet anticipation is over, and The 5 ¾ Questions You’ve Been Avoiding is finally live.

We’ve had a ton of great feedback … here are just three of my favorite comments:

  • “Just got around to watching the 5.75 Questions...it's 08:50 here on a wet, grey London morning and that was just the sort of thing I needed to wake me up and get my brain in gear for the day so thanks for that.”
  • "Wow!  LOVE those questions.  I've sent this to:  My 19-year-old son … My 63-year-old brother … My 57-year-old husband … My 65-year-old best friend … My 90-year-old Dad."
  • "Thank you so much for your new movie. It is very thought provoking and you are too cool presenting such coaching themes in a fun and cool way.  I saw you here in Melbourne a while back now and I think you are too cool for school." (I’ve ALWAYS wanted to be “too cool for school”!)

So just what IS “¾ of a question”?

That of course is the tease…

You’ll just have to find out here

Five other questions

At the end of the movie, you’re invited to sign up for the free e-course, Five Questions for a Life of Fun, Inspiration & Action

I hope you’ll take advantage of the course.  Anshinka in India wrote:

“....u simply make me think what i had never thought before....”

By the way, you will get just one email from me to say Thank You for signing up. Please ignore the line that says you'll see a second email asking you to confirm your subscription to Outside the Lines. If you are reading this, you are already confirmed!

And – if you enjoy the movie, please pass it along to friends and family.


Want to learn more?  Here are some great resources

Making Questions Work, Dorothy Strachan.  An invaluable resource for coaches,
facilitators and trainers.  Not just questions – but the best context in which to use them as well.

Think Better, Tim Hurson.  I know Tim and I’ve just seen an advanced reader’s copy of his first book.  It’s excellent – and one of the chapters is “Stay in the Question.”  This is a invaluable guide to productive, creative thinking.  It’s available for pre-ordering.

Making Movies, Dire Straits. Still a classic



Don't take my word for it

Smart folks thinking out loud about questions:

"There are no right answers to wrong questions."
-Ursula K LeGuin, American author

"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions
themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will find them gradually, without noticing it, and live along some distant day into the answer."
-Rainer Maria Rilke, German poet

"The answers you get from literature depend upon the questions you pose."
-Margaret Atwood, Canadian author

"He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a question
remains a fool forever."
-Chinese proverb

"There are years that ask questions, and years that answer them."
-Zora Neale Hurston, American author

"In all affairs it's a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted."
-Bertrand Russell, Welsh philosopher

"The only interesting answers are those that destroy the questions."
-Susan Sontag, American author

"You mustn't always believe what I say. Questions tempt you to tell lies, particularly
when there is no answer."
-Pablo Picasso, Spanish artist

 
 

Great Work Teleforum

On Thursday, September 6th at noon EST time, Nicki Weiss of SalesWise and I are holding a free teleforum on “Less Good Work, More Great Work.”  We’ve only got 150 lines – so first in, first served. You can register here.

We’ll be looking at just what the difference is between Good Work and Great Work… and three things you can do to increase the amount of Great Work in your life.

Register here
This is a free teleforum. Just fill out the contact info on the form marked with an asterix.

 
 

What Stops Coaching from Flourishing?

I'm presenting a workshop called "Coaching 2.0" at the OD Network Conference in Baltimore in October and I need your help.

In the workshop, I will explore what allows coaching to REALLY flourish in organizations.

To do that, I want to understand the barriers that stop coaching from having the impact it might.

If you work in an organization, or provide coaching to an organization, I’d greatly appreciate you taking 5 minutes (or less) to complete this quick survey on coaching in organizations.  You can take the survey now

As a thank you, I'll happily send you (if you wish) the results of this survey AND the handouts from the conference.

You can access the survey here

Many thanks to the 600+ people who've answered the survey to date - I'm very grateful for your support.

Got It Going On: Michael's Speaking Gigs

There are some upcoming public workshops in Toronto, Baltimore and Italy.  You can find out more here.

"The day was a huge success. My team felt invigorated with the new skills learned and found it extremely beneficial to practice the new techniques on a 'real life' example. Michael gave us some very practical tools and insights, but was also flexible and accommodating to the needs of the group. I have great confidence that my team will continue to apply the learning." - Melissa Gasson, Director, Kraft Canada.

Could I be of service to your organization? If you are responsible for booking speakers or organizing conferences, or know someone who is, find out more information here.

About Michael

Michael Bungay Stanier is the guy behind The Possibility Virus, an organization that provides products and services so people can have lives of fun, inspiration and action.

To learn more about his corporate offerings, see BoxOfCrayons.biz

You can find out more by contacting Michael directly at michael@boxofcrayons.biz or +1 (416) 532-1322.

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Reprint - I'd be delighted if you should wish to reprint (for free) any part of Outside the Lines in your newsletters, websites, and message boards. Simply include the following attribution:

Michael Bungay Stanier is a professional keynote speaker, the author of the best selling coaching tool, Get Unstuck & Get Going ...on the stuff that matters and the creator of Eight Irresistible Principles of Fun. A certified coach and Rhodes Scholar, he works with teams and organizations to help them do less Good Work and more Great Work.

Schedule - Outside the Lines is distributed on the 2nd and 4th Thursday of every month. Your contact information is never traded, never rented, never sold.

I send out an extra email one to three times a month detailing programs and offers.

©Box of Crayons 2007. Box of Crayons is a registered trading name of Maida CC Inc.

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